Single fat female: Why it has to be “f*ck yes” or “see you later”

There is no in between for fat girls. Even if you’re just looking for a hookup, it has to be all in or all out.

You want your partner to worship your curves, not tolerate them.
Girl, you have a body that deserves to be worshiped and adored, just like everyone else. If you’re looking for something serious, you want that person to stare at you with desire and show you off like a prize. If you’re just looking for fun, you want someone who is down to explore every inch — no hesitation! Avoid people who say things to you like “but you have such a pretty face” or “you’re not my usual type.” Trust me, being the exception is never as nice as it initially sounds.

You want to spend your time wisely.
Think about all the time you have spent on potential matches that never panned out. Yikes, I know I could fill a couple calendars! So how do you avoid wasting time on the wrong person? Don’t entertain maybes. If you meet the hottie of your dreams but they are only kind of interested, then say “good luck” and move on. He or she is not your dream partner AND you are not his or her dream partner either. Trust your instincts on this. If you get a vibe that you’re not their number one choice, then you’re probably right. I’m not too proud to admit that I have cried on the drive home after a shitty…